Start Your Surrogacy Journey to Parenthood

We’ve been where you are. From failed transfers to feeling discouraged by the limited options for queer intended parents, the Alcea team understands what it means to an intended parent.
We work with all types of parents – domestic and international, LGBTQIA+, heterosexual, single parents and couples to find the just-right surrogate. Whether you are looking for full-service surrogacy support, a simple fertility consultation, or are interested in private client management inclusive of all your needs, we can help. And we are more than happy to provide private client references. All you have to do is ask.

The Alcea model is very different from the average agency model. Whereas most agencies require a large down payment just to enter a waiting queue that can last a year or more, Alcea has created something much more client-friendly and ethical.

We ONLY open up as many Intended Parent (IP) Consults as we have surrogates who have reached a key milestone in our robust screening process. This approach allows us to keep our match times under 90 days.

If you don’t see any available consultations — or only ones 20–50 days out — please email Lauryn@alceasurrogacy.com She can place you on our cancellation list or potentially find an earlier appointment.

Believe us, it’s worth the wait!

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New York Surrogacy: The CPSA
We cater to intended parents looking for a completely customized approach to their surrogacy process. With the nuanced launch of New York commercial surrogacy, our team is at the forefront of everything NY, collaborating with industry experts to understand the CPSA legislation. With New York aiming to codify ethical industry standards, Alcea welcomes the higher level of scrutiny and oversight the legislation brings and upholds the surrogate bill of rights.

The Intended Parent Process

1-3 Months or More

As you begin your exciting and sometimes scary leap into gestational surrogacy, research and education should be a non-negotiable as you prepare for this incredibly intimate and complex process. There are hundreds of third-party professionals, some of whom are unethical and are looking to extract as much money as possible from intended parents without providing their promised services. Thankfully, with good media literacy, there are multiple resources available via subject matter experts, reliable internet sources like ASRM, SEEDS, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), as well as other vetted social media sources, including previous gestational surrogates and intended parents willing to share their personal experiences. 

Trustworthy information, preparation, patience, and a strong support system are non-negotiable for any intended parent considering a surrogacy journey. The quickest route is almost never the most ethical route; surrogacy deserves intention, diligence, commitment, and preparedness. 

If there is pressure to sign quickly or pay before receiving detailed information, it is essential to be cautious. Vague answers about screening, match timelines, or fees. No straightforward dispute resolution process. Minimal post-birth support. All red flags

 

For a gestational surrogacy journey, you will need to choose: 

  • An agency to manage the process end-to-end & to help select and screen your future surrogate
  •  Independent legal counsel to represent you for the Gestational Carrier Agreement (GCA) and parentage
  • An IVF Clinic and a doctor 
  • If applicable, an egg or sperm bank, or a fresh donor via your clinic or another agency 
  • An escrow company
  • Financing if applicable 
  • Your surrogate 

All of these are very important partners who need to be vetted, interviewed, and verified as subject matter experts and proven to be reputable entities able to do business legally. They will be your team throughout one of the most intimate and life-changing experiences of your life.

  1. Legal & Ethical Standards
  • Licensing & compliance: Check if the agency operates in states where surrogacy is legal and complies with state-specific laws. Separate legal counsel: A reputable agency will require both intended parents (IPs) and gestational carriers (GCs) to have their own attorneys. Contract transparency: You should see clear, detailed sample contracts before committing. History of litigation: Ask if they’ve had lawsuits or disputes and how they were resolved.

2. Screening Process for Surrogates & Intended Parents

  • Medical screening: Confirm the GC undergoes full reproductive, OB,  including MFM/high-risk OB clearance. Psychological evaluation: A licensed mental health professional should evaluate both GC and IP. Background checks: Criminal, child abuse registry, and financial screenings should be mandatory for both parties. Clinic collaboration: A strong agency works closely with IVF clinics to pre-approve GCs before match meetings.

3. Matching Process

  • Criteria customization: They should match on more than just medical eligibility, but values, lifestyle, communication style, and birth preferences matter. Transparency: You should know how many profiles you’ll be presented and the process if you decline a match. Timelines: Ask for realistic average match times based on your criteria.

4. Support & Communication

  • Dedicated case management: You should have a clear primary contact for the entire process. Access to counseling: The agency should provide emotional support resources for both parties throughout the journey, from before to after. Availability: Confirm how quickly they respond to urgent needs (nights/weekends).

5. Financial Transparency

  • Fee structure: All agency, legal, medical, and GC compensation fees should be clearly itemized. Refund/Rematch Policy: Understand what happens if the journey doesn’t proceed as planned. Third-party fund management: Trust accounts should be held by a licensed escrow provider, not the agency itself.

6. Reputation & Track Record

  • Referrals & testimonials – Speak with past IPs and GCs directly (not just agency-selected ones).Longevity: How long have they been in operation, and how many completed journeys have they managed? Professional affiliations: Membership in reputable organizations 

 

Onboarding & Pre-Matching: 45-120 days

  • Initial Contact & Consultation

  • Goal: Determine if the agency is a good fit for your needs.
  • Confirm the ethos and ethical philosophy of the agency. 
  • The agency explains its services, philosophy, and process. You share your goals, preferences, and timeline.

     

  • Information Packet

  • You receive a digital or printed guide explaining: 
    • The surrogacy process from start to finish.
    • Agency fees and payment schedules should be clear and concise
    • Expertise of the team and support structure that can be expected
    • Eligibility Requirements

       

  • Questions to Ask:

  • How many surrogates are in screening now?
  • What is your average match time?
  • How do you vet surrogates medically, psychologically, and legally?
  • What is the agency’s stance on termination? 
  • General questions about policy and procedures, as well as their professional affiliations.
  • Where do they source their surrogates, and how are they educated?
  • Does the agency have clinical personnel on staff or mental health professionals?

     4. Application & Intake:

  • Goal: Provide the agency with a clear picture of your preferences and situation.
    • Agency Application Form – Basic info about you, your family, and your reproductive history.
    • Matching Profile – Your “intended parent profile” with photos, background, and personal details that surrogates will see.
    • Confidentiality & Consent Forms – Authorizations to share necessary details with clinics, attorneys, and potential matches

             5. Pre-Match Consultation 

  • Goal: Cover preferences on:
    • Geographic location of the surrogate
    • Lifestyle and dietary considerations
    • Medical history and pregnancy preferences
    • Willingness to work with w/certain types of surrogates (e.g., single, LGBTQIA+, international, etc.
    • Budget & financial concerns 

6. Readiness Verification

  • Goal: Ensure you’re ready to match as soon as the right surrogate is found.
    • Parent Portal Complete – Application, disclosures, upload of identification for background check all complete.
    • Agency Agreement  – Reviewed and executed.
    • Pre-Match Consultation – once all of this is complete you officially enter our matching queue 

7. Candidate Presentation

  • You’re presented with one potential match

  • Review & Decision Period – two (2) business days to approve, decline, or request more options.
  • If Approved:
    • Surrogate’s profile is sent to your clinic for medical pre-approval
    • This step can take 2-4 weeks depending on clinic speed
  • If approved, a match meeting will be scheduled by Alcea’s mental health professional

8. Match Meeting Preparation & Match Meeting 

  • Goal: Ensure all parties are comfortable before officially matching.
  • Psychological Group Session – Facilitated by a PhD or MSW with surrogacy expertise.
  • Match Meeting Agenda – Topics include:
    • Communication styles
    • Pregnancy expectations
    • Birth plan preferences
    • Handling potential complications

       

  • Outcome: If all parties agree, a rules of engagement call is facilioated for all pareties to meet their case managers, set up escrow, and make initial plans for in person medical screening. The match agreement is signed and the match is OFFICIAL! 

9. Keys to a Smooth Onboarding

  • Be Specific in Preferences – The clearer you are, the faster the right match can be found.
  • Respond Promptly – Delays in reviewing profiles or scheduling meetings can push back timelines.
  • Stay Flexible – While preferences matter, too many rigid requirements can lengthen the process.
  • Maintain Open Communication – Build trust early with your agency and surrogate.

     

Matching: 90 days or less 

The Match Meeting

The meeting is a pivotal moment where both parties meet (virtually or in person) to ensure mutual alignment. It is facilitated by a licensed mental health professional—someone with direct experience in surrogacy—alongside the agency’s matching team.

  • Purpose of the Meeting:

  • To create a safe space for both the surrogate and intended parents to connect.
  • To clarify expectations, boundaries, and hopes for the journey.
  • To establish whether both sides feel comfortable moving forward together.

 

  • Topics Typically Discussed:

  • Communication Styles: How often to connect, preferred methods (texts, calls, video).
  • Relationship Boundaries: Involvement in appointments, visiting, and family interactions.
  • Pregnancy & Birth Preferences: Plans for prenatal care, delivery room expectations, and postpartum decisions such as breast milk or hospital visitation.
  • Values & Support Systems: Exploring motivations, family dynamics, and support available to each party.
  • Financial Transparency: Confirming understanding of compensation structure and covered expenses.
  • Any topics the IVF clinic, the Intended Parents, and the Gestational Surrogate would like to cover

 

  • Outcomes of the Match Meeting

  • If both parties feel aligned, the match is considered official. The journey then moves forward, meeting your case manager, opening escrow, and attending a rules of engagement call to learn the detailed next step.s
  • If one or both parties feel it is not the right fit, the agency respectfully returns to the matching process, ensuring a better alignment in the following presentation.
  • If the match does not move forward, all parties enter the matching queue.

     

  • Rules of Engagement Call, Meet the Team 

  • Upon paying the first agency fee, both the IP and the GC will attend the Rules of Engagement Call, in which all parties will learn detailed next steps, and meet the case manager who will be their support partner and point of contact for the duration of the surrogacy journey. 

Medical Screening: 30-65 Days

This process is designed to make sure the surrogate is physically healthy, emotionally stable, and capable of safely carrying a pregnancy. Alcea will provide the demographics of all parties to the IVF clinic, who will reach out to the surrogate to confirm basic information, blackout dates, confirm provider information, and determine when her next cycle will arrive to plan in-person medical screening tentatively. 

  1. Initial Health & Medical History Review: Clinic 

  • Medical questionnaire: The surrogate fills out a detailed health history, including prior pregnancies, deliveries, surgeries, and any medical conditions.
  • Obstetric history: Doctors want to see at least one previous uncomplicated pregnancy and birth. A history of preterm labor or other complications could be a red flag.
  • Family medical history: Screening for inherited conditions that might impact pregnancy.
  • Why this matters: A history of healthy, full-term pregnancies is one of the strongest predictors of being a successful surrogate. 

 

  1. Blood Tests & Infectious Disease Screening

  • Surrogates undergo a panel of blood tests to check overall health and rule out infections. These usually include:
  • Complete blood count (CBC) – checks for anemia, clotting, and immune function.
  • Hormone levels – thyroid function, prolactin, ovarian reserve (to ensure normal reproductive hormone balance, even if her eggs won’t be used).
  • Infectious diseases (per FDA and CDC guidelines):
  • HIV
  • Hepatitis B & C
  • Syphilis, Gonorrhea, & Chlamydia
  • CMV (Cytomegalovirus)
  • Rubella & Varicella (to confirm immunity)
  • Why this matters: These screenings protect the surrogate, baby, and intended parents.

 

  1. Physical Exam & Imaging

  • General physical exam: By an OB/GYN or reproductive endocrinologist.
  • Pelvic exam & Pap smear: Ensures a healthy cervix and uterus.
    Ultrasound (transvaginal): Evaluates the uterus for fibroids, scars, or abnormalities that could interfere with pregnancy.
  • Uterine cavity evaluation (sometimes a saline sonohysterogram or hysteroscopy): To make sure the uterine lining can support an embryo.
  • Why this matters: This ensures that the surrogate has an appropriate anatomy and optimal conditions to undergo the IVF process, take the medications, and ultimately achieve a pregnancy via IVF.

4. Additional Health Screenings

  • Depending on the surrogate’s age and health history, the clinic may also require:
    • EKG (electrocardiogram) – to check heart health.
    • Mammogram – if over 40 (or earlier if family history).
    • BMI check – Many clinics require a healthy weight range, since a higher BMI can increase pregnancy risks.

  • Why this matters: Surrogacy is about reducing risk, and if there are anythings that could be potential complications, it is important that diligence is done to rule them out. 

5. Psychological Evaluation

  • Counseling session: A mental health professional evaluates emotional stability, motivation, and understanding of the surrogacy process.
  • Standardized psychological tests: For example, the MMPI-2 (Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory), which checks for underlying psychological issues.
  • Partner/spouse evaluation (if applicable): To ensure the surrogate has strong emotional support at home.

  • Why this matters: This step is crucial — carrying a child for someone else is emotionally intense, and clinics want to ensure the surrogate is prepared.



The Legal Phase of Your Journey

The legal phase is one of the most meaningful milestones in your surrogacy journey. During this stage, we make sure that both you and your surrogate feel fully supported, protected, and clear on what to expect moving forward. While it may sound formal, this process is really about creating peace of mind—so you can focus on the joy and anticipation of the journey ahead.

What Happens During the Legal Phase

  • Creating Your Agreement: Your attorney will prepare the Gestational Carrier Agreement (GSA), a document that outlines responsibilities, financial arrangements, and expectations for both you and your surrogate.

  • Independent Review for Your Surrogate: Your surrogate will have her own attorney, ensuring she fully understands the agreement and has an advocate just for her.

  • Revisions and Collaboration: Both sides will review, discuss, and adjust until everyone feels comfortable and confident.

  • Signing and Finalizing: Once all parties are in agreement, the document is signed and notarized—making everything official.

What to Expect

  • Legal Support Coordination: Alcea’s Legal Administrator will help connect you with experienced independent legal counsel who will represent your interests throughout the contract process.

  • Draft & Review of the Agreement: Your legal team will prepare the first draft of the Gestational Surrogacy Agreement (GSA). You’ll review this thoroughly with your attorney to make sure you understand every detail and the protections it provides.

  • Collaboration with Counsel: This is a collaborative stage where you can raise questions, clarify terms, and request adjustments. Your attorney is there to ensure the agreement reflects your wishes and comfort.

  • Compensation Acknowledgment: Together with your attorney, you’ll confirm that the Compensation Acknowledgment you signed earlier is clearly and accurately reflected in the contract.

  • Final Agreement & Notarization: Once all parties are fully comfortable with the terms, the agreement is signed and notarized. At this point, everything is official, and your journey moves into the exciting next phase: medical preparation for embryo transfer.

Why This Matters

The legal phase sets the foundation for the entire journey. A written agreement provides clarity for everyone, removing uncertainty and helping all parties feel secure. It ensures your rights as Intended Parents are protected while honoring your surrogate’s needs and well-being. Most importantly, it allows you to move into the medical stage with confidence, knowing that everything has been carefully and thoughtfully put in place.

With the legal foundation in place, you can step into the next stage of your journey with clarity, confidence, and excitement for what’s to come.

After Legal Clearance: What Happens Next

Once your Gestational Surrogacy Agreement is signed and escrow is funded, your journey takes an exciting step forward into the cycling stage. This is when your surrogate begins preparing her body for the embryo transfer with the guidance of your fertility clinic. It’s a time filled with anticipation, careful preparation, and lots of support from the Alcea team.

Monitoring Appointments

In the weeks leading up to transfer, your surrogate will have several monitoring appointments. These include ultrasounds to check that her uterine lining is growing just as it should, and bloodwork to measure hormone levels. These regular check-ins help the clinic determine when her body is perfectly ready for transfer.

Why this matters: Every detail is carefully tracked to ensure the best possible timing for embryo transfer, giving your journey the strongest chance for success.

Cycling Medications

Your surrogate will also begin a medication protocol designed to prepare her body to welcome and support an embryo. These may include estrogen to build a healthy lining, progesterone to support implantation, and other medications depending on the clinic’s plan. Medications can come in different forms—pills, patches, or sometimes injections—and your surrogate will be guided closely through the process.

Why this matters: IVF relies on precise timing, and these medications create the most supportive environment possible for your embryo to thrive.

Preparing for Transfer

As monitoring continues, the clinic will confirm when your surrogate’s body is ready for transfer and set the official date. If travel is required, both your surrogate’s Case Manager and your Case Manager at Alcea will coordinate logistics to ensure everything is smooth, safe, and stress-free. You’ll also receive regular updates so you always know what’s happening next.

Why this matters: Transfer day is one of the most anticipated milestones in your journey. Careful preparation and seamless planning help make this moment both exciting and reassuring.

Embryo Transfer Day

The big day is here! The embryo transfer itself is a quick and gentle procedure for your surrogate. After a short rest at the clinic, she’ll head home (or back to her hotel if travel was needed), following the doctor’s guidance for light activity. You’ll be updated once the transfer is complete and given the date for the first pregnancy blood test—usually about 10 days later.

Why this matters: This is the moment your journey shifts from preparation to possibility. Transfer day is full of hope and meaning, bringing you one step closer to the family you’ve been dreaming of.

From this point forward, every step is filled with hope, preparation, and the joyful anticipation of welcoming your baby.

After Embryo Transfer: What Happens Next

The embryo transfer is one of the most meaningful moments in your surrogacy journey—a hopeful step filled with anticipation, love, and the dream of what’s to come. The weeks that follow are full of important milestones, each one moving you closer to the joy of welcoming your baby. At Alcea, we’ll be right by your side, celebrating the highs and offering steady support through every emotion along the way.

Beta Testing: The First Signs of Pregnancy

About 9–14 days after transfer, your surrogate will have her first pregnancy blood test, called a beta. A second test follows a few days later to confirm that the hormone levels are rising as expected. Sometimes additional betas are ordered, simply to give extra reassurance. These “beta days” can be some of the most emotional in the journey—full of both hope and nerves—and we’ll be with you every step of the way.

Why this matters: Beta results are often the very first confirmation that your journey is moving forward, giving a first glimpse of hope that your dreams are becoming reality.

Heartbeat Ultrasound: Hearing the First Beat

If the beta results are reassuring, the next big milestone comes around 6–7 weeks: the heartbeat ultrasound. This is often one of the most moving moments for Intended Parents, when you may see or hear your baby’s heartbeat for the very first time. It’s the first glimpse of the life you’ve been waiting for, and a moment many families never forget.

Why this matters: That tiny heartbeat is the earliest sign of your growing baby—it brings both comfort and joy, helping you feel more connected to the pregnancy and your future child.

Follow-Up Growth Scan: Extra Reassurance

A week or two later, most clinics schedule one more ultrasound to confirm that the pregnancy is progressing smoothly. This scan often brings an extra sense of comfort, providing steady reassurance before moving from fertility care into regular pregnancy care.

Why this matters: This final scan is a chance to exhale, showing steady progress before transitioning care, and offering peace of mind that your baby is continuing to grow as hoped.

Weaning Off IVF Medications: A Quiet Milestone

By about 8–12 weeks, your surrogate will begin tapering off the medications that supported her body through IVF. This transition is guided carefully by the clinic and marks a powerful shift—your surrogate’s body is now fully sustaining the pregnancy naturally.

Why this matters: Though less visible than ultrasounds, this milestone is deeply meaningful—it symbolizes that the pregnancy is thriving on its own, moving forward without extra medical support.

Transition to OB Care: Graduation Day

Around 10–12 weeks, your surrogate will “graduate” from the fertility clinic and begin routine care with her OB. This step is often celebrated as a joyful milestone—it represents moving from the intense, medical focus of IVF into the steady rhythm of a growing pregnancy. It’s also one big step closer to the day you finally meet your baby.

Why this matters: Graduation marks a shift from the hope of treatment to the reality of pregnancy—a joyful sign that you’re on your way to parenthood.

 

Pregnancy: What to Expect

Once your surrogate “graduates” from the fertility clinic, her care transitions to a regular obstetrician (OB), just like any other pregnancy. From this point on, the journey follows the traditional schedule of appointments, check-ins, and ultrasounds. For many Intended Parents, this stage is when everything begins to feel wonderfully real—each milestone bringing you closer to meeting your baby.

Every pregnancy is unique, so timing may vary, but here’s a general sense of what to expect throughout each trimester.

First Trimester (Weeks 1–13)

The early weeks are about establishing a healthy foundation. Around 10–12 weeks, your surrogate will have her first OB appointment, which includes a full exam, bloodwork, and an ultrasound. You may also choose to move forward with genetic screenings, such as the Nuchal Translucency scan or NIPT (done between weeks 11–13). These are optional but can offer valuable reassurance about your baby’s health.

Second Trimester (Weeks 14–27)

Often called the “golden trimester,” this is when the pregnancy tends to feel more comfortable for your surrogate and more exciting for you. OB visits happen about once a month, and you’ll start receiving more detailed updates about your baby’s growth. Around 20–22 weeks comes the much-anticipated anatomy ultrasound—a big milestone where your baby’s development is carefully checked and you may even see some incredible images. This is the stage when many Intended Parents feel the connection deepen as they watch their baby grow.

Third Trimester (Weeks 28–40)

The final stretch! Around 28 weeks, your surrogate will have glucose testing and lab work, and OB visits will increase to every two weeks. Around 32 weeks, another growth scan may be done to check on your baby’s progress. By 36 weeks, weekly appointments begin, along with routine checks like the Group B Strep test. From 37 weeks onward, it’s officially “baby watch” time—whether your little one arrives right on schedule or with the help of an induction or C-section, this is the stage where preparation shifts into excitement. Many parents use this time to finalize travel plans, pack bags, and get ready for that unforgettable moment of meeting their child.

Alongside the medical milestones of pregnancy, there’s an important legal step that ensures you are recognized as your baby’s parents at birth: the Pre-Birth Order (PBO).

Because surrogacy law varies by state, the exact process and timeline may differ depending on where your surrogate lives. That said, most journeys follow a similar pattern.

When It Happens

  • 16–20 weeks: Your legal team begins the PBO process, drafting and filing the paperwork with the court.

  • By 28 weeks (no later): The goal is to have the court order signed and in place well before the third trimester.

Why this matters: Completing this early ensures peace of mind and avoids any last-minute stress as you approach delivery.

What’s Involved

  • Drafting & Filing: Attorneys prepare the petition asking the court to establish you as the baby’s legal parents.

  • Court Review: Depending on the state, this may be handled through paperwork only or may require a short hearing.

  • Surrogate’s Role: Your surrogate (and her spouse/partner, if applicable) may need to sign supporting documents.

  • Outcome: Once approved, the order guarantees your names are placed directly on the birth certificate at delivery. 

Why this matters: This step ensures that you, and only you, are legally recognized as the baby’s parents from the very beginning.

 

Our Role

  • We work closely with your legal team to ensure everything is moving on schedule.

  • We keep you updated at each step — from drafting, to filing, to final court approval.

  • We confirm the hospital has a copy of the PBO in advance so delivery day goes smoothly.

Why this matters: Legal clarity provides emotional peace. With everything in place, you can focus fully on preparing to welcome your child. This document will be provided to the hospital Social Worker alongside your birth plan so that the hospital is aware of any necessary steps after delivery to ensure your legal rights as the parents.

Welcoming your baby into the world is one of the most meaningful moments of your surrogacy journey. At Alcea, we take great care to plan for this milestone so that everyone—your surrogate, you as the Intended Parents, and your care team—feels prepared, supported, and confident about what to expect.

Our on-staff Registered Nurse leads the birth planning process, with the support of both your Case Manager and your surrogate’s Case Manager. Together, we make sure every detail is thoughtfully considered, so when the big day comes, you can focus on the joy of meeting your baby.

What Happens During This Stage

  • Surrogate Birth Preferences Meeting: Your surrogate first meets with our RN to talk through her personal comfort levels and wishes during labor and delivery including desire to pump breastmilk after delivery, who her support person will be in the delivery room, what her preferences are for medications and overall atmosphere of the delivery room.

  • Intended Parent Birth Preferences Meeting: You will also meet with our RN to discuss your hopes, preferences in the event you are unable to attend the delivery, and what’s most important for you in welcoming your child.

  • Joint Birth Planning Meeting: Everyone comes together to align on a shared plan, honoring both your surrogate’s needs and your wishes as parents.

 

  • Hospital Coordination: Our RN connects directly with the hospital’s social worker to review policies, clarify roles, and ensure staff are prepared to support both you and your surrogate.

  • Signed Birth Plan: A clear, written plan is finalized and signed by both you and your surrogate, so the entire care team has guidance for the big day. This signed birth plan is then provided to the hospital outlining everyone’s desires in a clear format.

Why this matters: With your wishes, your surrogate’s comfort, and hospital staff all aligned, birth planning provides clarity, trust, and peace of mind—so you can focus on the joy of welcoming your baby.

The Call & Early Labor

  • That long-awaited call will come—from your surrogate, her partner, or our team—letting you know that labor has begun. Sometimes things move slowly, and other times they move quickly, so if you aren’t already nearby, it’s best to head toward the hospital or birth center.
  • By this stage, many of the important details—like who can be in the delivery room, whether both Intended Parents can be present, and who might cut the cord or do skin-to-skin—will already be outlined in your birth plan and legal agreement. That preparation means you can arrive feeling confident and ready for this special moment.

Arriving at the Hospital

  • Because we’ll have worked with the hospital team ahead of time, staff will be expecting you and will guide you where you need to go. Depending on your surrogate’s comfort and hospital policies, you may be able to be right by her side during labor. Some parents choose to be present throughout, while others join closer to delivery—it’s all about what feels right for everyone involved.
  • While in the room, your role is to offer encouragement and support if your surrogate welcomes it, while also trusting the medical team to focus on keeping both her and your baby safe.

The Delivery

  • Every birth unfolds a little differently. Vaginal deliveries can take time, while a C-section usually happens more quickly and with different protocols. What matters most is that your baby will soon be in your arms. If planned, you or your partner may have the honor of cutting the umbilical cord or being the very first to hold your little one—a memory you’ll carry for a lifetime.

Right After Birth

The first hours after delivery are a beautiful and emotional time. At Alcea, we want you to feel prepared while also being able to soak in the joy of meeting your baby for the very first time.

First Moments Together

  • Skin-to-Skin: If everyone is comfortable and it’s medically possible, you may be able to hold your baby skin-to-skin right away. This not only helps with bonding but also calms and regulates your little one.

  • Baby’s First Check: Nurses will gently check your baby’s breathing, color, and reflexes in the first minutes of life.

  • Feeding: If your surrogate is providing colostrum or breast milk, your baby’s first feeding may happen right in the delivery room. If not, formula can be started quickly so your baby is nourished from the very beginning.

Paperwork & Legal Details

  • In many surrogacy-friendly states, your names will go directly on your baby’s birth certificate.

  • In some cases, temporary paperwork may list your surrogate until your attorney finalizes the parentage order.

  • Hospital staff may ask to see your surrogacy agreement or court orders, so having these on hand helps everything move smoothly.

Supporting Your Surrogate

  • After delivery, your surrogate’s medical team will focus on her recovery and comfort, whether from a vaginal birth or a C-section.

  • This is a deeply emotional and physical moment for her as well—acknowledging her experience and giving her space for rest and care is an important part of honoring the journey you’ve shared.

Your First Hours with Baby

  • Many hospitals will provide a private room just for you and your baby, giving you space to settle in as a new family.

  • Nurses will stop by often during the first 24 hours to check on your baby, answer questions, and guide you through early care.

  • You’ll also be walked through newborn basics like the first bath, vaccinations, and screenings—so you feel confident and supported right from the start.

Pro Tip for Parents: The more you prepare ahead—pre-registering with the hospital, keeping legal paperwork ready, packing for an overnight stay, and having open conversations with your surrogate about delivery preferences—the smoother and more special this time will feel.

Immediately After Birth: What to Expect as an Intended Parent

The moments right after delivery are filled with emotion, relief, and joy. While hospital procedures may vary depending on location and your legal arrangements, our goal is to help you feel prepared so you can focus on meeting your baby and supporting your surrogate.

Hospital Procedures

  • Legal paperwork: Depending on your state or country, parentage may be established with a pre-birth order, or in some cases through a post-birth process. In some hospitals, your names are placed directly on the birth certificate; in others, the surrogate’s name may appear first and later be amended. Your legal team and Alcea staff will guide you through this so you know exactly what to expect.

  • Baby’s first checks: Hospital staff will gently evaluate your baby right after birth. If arranged, your baby may room with you in a private space, or stay in the nursery/NICU if extra care is needed.

  • Bonding time: Whenever possible, Intended Parents are offered immediate skin-to-skin contact, though this may depend on the type of delivery and the health of both your baby and your surrogate.

  • Feeding: If your surrogate has chosen to provide colostrum or breastmilk, this is coordinated right away. Otherwise, formula feeding begins so your baby is nourished from the very first moments.

Supporting Your Surrogate

Your surrogate will still be a patient after delivery, receiving postpartum care for her physical recovery and emotional well-being. She may want quiet time to rest, some privacy, or perhaps short visits from you—it’s unique to each surrogate and ideally discussed before birth in your shared birth plan. Offering her respect and space in those first hours is an important way to honor the incredible role she has played in your journey.

After Delivery: Supporting You Beyond Birth

The arrival of your baby is the moment you’ve been waiting for—but your journey with Alcea doesn’t end there. We know that the days and weeks following delivery are a time of adjustment for everyone, and our team is here to make sure you feel supported every step of the way.

After birth, we continue to walk alongside both you and your surrogate, ensuring practical details are handled smoothly while also caring for emotional well-being.

What Happens After Delivery

  • Insurance & Billing Oversight: Our team monitors hospital and medical bills, making sure they are processed correctly and paid on time.

  • Insurance Status Checks: We confirm ongoing insurance coverage is properly aligned for your surrogate and your baby.

  • Emotional & Mental Health Support: If your surrogate needs additional support postpartum, we connect her with resources and counseling.

  • Intended Parent Check-Ins: We reach out to you as new parents, offering guidance, reassurance, and a listening ear as you settle into life with your baby.

  • Vital Records: We track and confirm that you receive your baby’s birth certificate and social security card without delay.

  • Adjusting to New Life: Both you and your surrogate will continue to receive gentle check-ins from our team, ensuring everyone feels supported during this important transition.

Why This Step Matters

These final steps provide peace of mind, knowing that nothing is overlooked. From the practical details like bills and paperwork to the emotional side of postpartum recovery and new parenthood, Alcea ensures that every member of your journey is cared for—so you can focus fully on bonding with your baby and embracing the joy of your new chapter.

At Alcea, we believe our care doesn’t end at delivery—we remain by your side to ensure every detail is handled and every heart is supported as you begin life with your baby.

Finding Your Surrogate

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Alcea Surrogates undergo a rigorous and comprehensive screening process.

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Matching

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Our pre-screening and matching process mitigates the risk in surrogate selection. One of the most comprehensive and meticulous in the industry leads to 90% of matches within the 1st meeting!

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Payment Schedule & Escrow

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Alcea will partner with you to open and fund an escrow account, after we have made a gestational carrier match.

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Contracts & Escrow Funding

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Alcea will coordinate with the intended parent's legal counsel, proactively providing the agreed-upon terms of a 'match sheet' discussed while in the matching phase.

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Monitoring & Embryo Transfer

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Alcea will coordinate with your surrogate’s monitoring and embryo transfers.

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Pregnancy

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Once a heartbeat is confirmed, Alcea continues to guide you and your surrogate along the way.

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Delivery & Closing Escrow

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Alcea will coordinate with the hospital to ensure they are familiar with the nuances of a surrogate delivery.

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Intended Parent Pricing Sheet

Let's talk! Alcea invites all clients to a complimentary consultation.

Let's talk! Alcea invites all clients to a complimentary consultation.